Date: Thu, 16 Nov 1995 15:09:34 -0600
From: EJOHNSON[AT SYMBOL GOES HERE]MSUVX2.MEMPHIS.EDU
Subject: Re: Political Blunder
This reminds me of the other night when my 4-year-old son, frustrated with
trying to open a straw in a restaurant, suddently came out with "goddam!", much
to the shock of the elderly couple in the booth next to us. My unthinking
response was to say "WHAT did you say?", after which he gladly repeated
himself. I quit letting him watch one of his favorite movies, Forrest Gump,
for awhile. It's hard being a linguist and also being expected to instill
society's taboos in your child. E.g. at his preschool he can't use the common
household term "butt" but must say "fanny" instead.
Ellen Johnson (hey! I'm almost caught up on my mail)
ejohnson[AT SYMBOL GOES HERE]cc.memphis.edu
From: IN%"ADS-L[AT SYMBOL GOES HERE]uga.cc.uga.edu" "American Dialect Society" 13-NOV-1995 09:42:40.07
Subj: RE: Political Blunder
On Mon, 13 Nov 1995, Sonja Lanehart wrote:
I still don't understand why the senator felt it necessary to repeat
what the caller said. If he really did hear it as a racial slur I don't
see why he would be so eager to repeat something like that--especially
on a radio talk show where so many people could hear it. I also don't
understand how repeating the slur was a way of reprimanding the caller.
It seems a better rebuke would have been enlightening the caller about
the inappropriateness of such a slur.
Granted, there are people--many people--for whom the word "nigger" is so
painful and invidious that they find it socially inappropriate for anyone
to utter it under ANY circumstances; for such persons, even repeating the
word with ironic intent (as I believe that Sen. Ford claims he thought he
was doing) would be considered socially inappropriate. On the other hand,
I can imagine myself in a situation in which I thought that someone had
used a phrase containing the invidious word in question and in which I
would be so shocked that I might conceivably repeat it back to the
utterer--my voice (I would hope) dripping with irony. For me, whenever I
hear someone use "nigger" in a "normal" way I am left virtually
speechless; sputtering with rage; conversationally inept. I agree that
there would certainly have been better ways for Sen. Ford to have handled
the situation. What I am maintaining is that, under the circumstances, it
could well have been an honest strategic conversational blunder brought
on partly by shock and partly by a desire to reprimand a constituent
without seeming too impolitic. I would hate to have to be held
responsible for all of my worst conversational missteps, and I think that
it is wrong simply to assume that the phrase is one that Sen Ford
approves of or uses regularly in conversation, or even that it indicates
racial bigotry on his part. As I understand it, he has given a public
explanation for his remark which contains an implicit apology and an
expression of abhorrence for the phrase in question. Given the facts as
they have been reported to me, I'd be willing to accept his explanation.