Date: Fri, 27 Sep 1996 10:13:37 -0500
From: Mark Mandel Mark[AT SYMBOL GOES HERE]DRAGONSYS.COM
Subject: Re: singular y'all -Reply
David A. Johns daj000[AT SYMBOL GOES HERE]FOX.WAY.PEACHNET.EDU 0927.0429
At 08:15 PM 9/26/96 -0500, you wrote:
[...]
One variation on the "you and yours" usage that I've started noticing
recently seems to involve avoiding the impression of over-intimacy. I've
heard it mainly from men addressing women they don't know, as in "how
y'all doin' today" from a male book salesman to a female secretary,
where the same salesman has addressed another male with "how ya
doin' today." My social sense tells me that the salesman is trying to avoid
the appearance of coming on to the secretary, though of course I have
no socially acceptable way of confirming that judgment, and I don't see
many instances, since if the salesman is aware of my presence, the
"y'all" becomes natural. Can anyone comment on this one?
I wonder...
Of course this is reminiscent of the development of the second person in
Latin- Romance, from the Classical Latin system (singular vs. plural with
no dimension of intimacy) to systems in which intimacy vs. formality
interacts with number in varying ways. (The dialectal variations in
Spanish alone are bewildering!) And in English, and in German...
I have seen this development in Latin attributed (sorry, no citation
available) to the use of the plural "vos" to officials in their capacity as
representatives of the State, which then allegedly spread from official
situations to meeting the same people unofficially. I don't know how
reliable that is. But I wonder if this situation that you report (and partially
infer), or something comparable, could have also been a component. I've
always felt the "official plural" [so to nickname it] explanation to be rather
weak.
Mark A. Mandel : mark[AT SYMBOL GOES HERE]dragonsys.com
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